ThresholdSong

Guidance at the Edge


A move. A loss. The weight of the world. A crossroads. Or something quieter—a call you can't yet name.


Thresholdsong offers 1:1 guidance + monthly group gatherings to support you with:- Navigating life transitions
- Healing generational patterns
- Tending to what anchors you when the world feels heavy


"The times are urgent—let us slow down."

-Dr. Bayo Akomolafe


Invitation to Pause

At the edge, different parts of you tend to have strong opinions—the one who wants to leap, the one who's terrified, the inner critic, the people pleaser, the caretaker. Often they're carrying patterns that aren't yours alone, but inherited.Then there's the weight of the world—the collective heaviness so many of us carry.You may have learned to push through. But what if the wisdom you need lives not beyond the pause, but inside it?


The Approach: The Thresholds

The Pause Reveals Three Thresholds:

Threshold 1: The Inner World of PartsWhen we pause, we can finally meet the parts that have been running the show. Here, we don't silence them. We get curious. We listen. We help them soften so that something else can emerge:The place beneath all the parts. The aspect of you that is already calm, clear, and capable. From here, decisions feel different—less driven by fear, more aligned with something deeper.Threshold 2: The Living World (Inherited Wisdom)Wisdom as old as humanity. We don't exist in isolation. We are always in relationship with the land, the water, the ancestors, the more-than-human world.A tree doesn't rush its growth. A river doesn't force its path. When we pause at a threshold, the living world has something to offer us—if we remember how to listen. Decisions made from this place come from the whole body, in relationship with a wider web.Threshold 3: The LiminalBetween the inner and the outer. Inspired by the Finnish sauna of my ancestors—a liminal space between worlds—we learn to hold the unknown. In the sauna, you don't force anything. The heat works on you. The steam—"löyly"—rises. Something old loosens. Something new becomes possible.This is the quality we bring to your thresholds: a container where you don't have to have the answers. Where clarity emerges on its own breath, in its own time.


Ready to Pause?

From the flurry of parts, to deeper clarity beneath, to the wisdom of the living world, to the stillness of the liminal—this is how the pause offers its gifts.Contact me for a free discovery call:


Ways to Gather

All sessions are held virtually and are typically 60-75 minutes. I work in both English and Finnish.

1. Individual GuidanceFor anyone standing at the edge. A move. A loss. The weight of the world. A crossroads, a quiet call for change. When the old ways of deciding aren't working.Together, we'll:- Get to know the parts of you that have strong opinions—listen to each of them and help them soften so you can access the deeper clarity.- Listen to the living world and what it's offering you in this moment.- Pause in the liminal to hold the unknown, so decisions can emerge rather than be forced.2. The Virtual Sauna: A Free Monthly Group Gathering - Details Coming Soon!A live, guided communal liminal space held monthly. An adaptation of the ancient Finnish practice—an immersion into the sacred mystery of the "löyly" (steam).A chance to pause, cleanse, lay down what you're carrying, and find clarity through connection with each other and the wider web of life.3. Ancestral Lineage Healing (1:1)What feels personal is often generational. The burdens you carry—the patterns, fears, and protections—may not be yours alone.This is a focused container for releasing what was never yours to carry and relearning how to live in a conscious, day-to-day relationship with your ancestors—so you can emerge with full access to the resilience, gifts, and blessings in your lineages.Learn More About Ancestral Healing below:


About Me

I'm Riitta.My Finnish heritage carries something quiet and old—generations of people who knew themselves to be part of the land. That knowing lives in me.My life's work weaves together psychological depth with the wisdom of the living world. I hold an M.A. in Counseling Psychology, with training in IFS (Internal Family Systems), somatic modalities, ancestral lineage healing, and am a student of Finnish shamanic traditions.I also practice from my full humanity: weaving a new story from personal and generational trauma, an immigrant, a mother, and a wife in a multicultural family—someone who will dance and sing whenever the moment allows.If you're standing at the edge, wondering what's next—I'd be honored to pause there with you.


Let´s Connect

All sessions are virtual. I offer flexible pricing to accommodate various humans and situations around the Earth.Please contact me for a free consultation and to discuss pricing for individual sessions.

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Disclaimer: Thresholdsong is not a crisis service or a substitute for medical or mental health treatment. I do not diagnose or treat previously diagnosed mental health conditions in this capacity.


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